MICO SPENCER
LOVE & LEADERSHIP MENTOR
I’LL SHOW YOU HOW TO LEAD YOURSELF THROUGH HARD MOMENTS INTO THE LIFE THAT YOU WANT.
You can rewire your baseline for inspiring, emotionally safe relationships - even if you never saw what that looked like.
I’m Mico Spencer, a trauma-informed coach and founder of the Growth Approach.
The Growth Approach is centered on updating our conditioning, post-traumatic growth, and increasing capacity for joy.
This is how I guide thoughtful, loving individuals on this journey of reparenting ourselves with the love we needed and growing towards self-expansion.
I love this work because understanding and consciously choosing new patterns will change your life in ways you can’t even imagine right now, as it has done for me.
My mind is a pretty nice place to be now, and I’m in the most loving, healthy relationship of my life because of the power of this work, and I’m honoured to share it with you.
Whatever you're dreaming of, I’m here to help you take the first step with confidence.
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I partner with adults in their 30s & 40s who know there’s more out there for them. I help them consciously upgrade their self-esteem and beliefs to create more fulfilling relationships in love, friendship, family and teams.
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I believe in custom plans tailored to each person. Everything starts with listening, building a custom roadmap together, and holding you through it until you’re ready to go on your own.
The modalities pull from IFS, CBT, Somatic experiencing, and Hypnotherapy (except I put the power in your hands)
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I partner with people who are thoughtful, funny, and want to change their life: whether that’s a complete identity shift they want to build, or a relationship they want to reconnect, or a 20% kinder inner dialogue.
I don’t judge or influence you based on my opinions, and my goal is to become obsolete.
I guide you through tools to discover for yourself, from a clear place, and I trust you to decide what’s aligned for you.
Once you can do this for yourself, you won’t need me (or anyone) to help you tell the difference between your head and your heart.
→ that’s what I really want.
Private Mentorship
Mico works with individuals and couples to create the safe presence needed to finally soften and uncover the potential held back by limiting beliefs and systems.
Events & Workshops
Deliver an enlightening and grounded talk about subconscious conditioning to your next event, retreat or podcast by welcoming Mico to your stage to share powerful insights and breakthroughs with your audience.
Group Facilitation
Mico has spent hundreds of hours facilitating groups to create the safe environment needed to crack open, work through challenges and access the connection and potential held back by limiting beliefs and systems.
I’LL SHOW YOU HOW IT CAN BE SAFE TO LOVE LOVE AGAIN
What People Are Saying
"Working with Mico has given me the confidence to set my own boundaries and to make my own choices in life without constantly striving to meet other peoples’ perceived expectations. She has also helped me to see ways I still feel unsafe in relationships and has helped me to tune into my body more for safety and to feel its wisdom. It has been so helpful to finally feel understood and accepted as a person and to feel that I, myself, am worthy of attention and support and that my dreams are worth working for.”
— Ali“Mico’s expertise, intuition, and genuine desire to help me thrive were invaluable. I felt truly seen and encouraged by her, she will meet you where you are with judgement-free guidance. She can balance nurturing care with constructive challenges to keep you growing. If you’re trying to break free of old relational habits and create lasting fulfillment, I can't recommend Mico highly enough.“
— Jess“Your clarity in explaining how our psyche works and capacity to empathize are priceless. You have a gift to get to the emotional core of everything and your method gets to actual results. I really appreciated the design of your working method and tools - makes me feel protected and purposeful as we move forward.”
— Mariano
On a personal note
During my own healing journey, I've found so much peace and empowerment through understanding myself and others that it became my passion. I've discovered a love for self-reflection that's allowed me to break the cycles I experienced in my family and romantic relationships that caused so much needless pain and suffering.
As an imperfect person, I'm still learning and growing everyday and discovering deeper layers of growth and potential for myself.
I also have the healthiest and happiest relationships of my life because of the work I've done to deeply understand and care for myself - even though (and especially because) others weren't able to.
I'm so honoured to support others through the same methods that helped me discover a relationship with myself and transform my experience of it, and by extension my relationship with others.
Thank you for being here, I feel privileged to be a part of your journey.
In full support of you,
Mico